Everything doesn’t happen as expected, some of the things are out of our control. Some events may not happen according to you, some may go significantly wrong. Being aware of it will help in dealing with the situations well.
Each and every individual situations are different. No matter when or at what time you are born, even if people are born at the same time and in the same kind of situations their perspective and how they approach things will be significantly different. So the only way could be understanding and finding the solution if available else moving on with it.